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MILL CREEK STORIES
a popular restaurant, elbow-toelbow
with the next table, while
the kitchen slides into the weeds
and the wait staff becomes overwhelmed.
What are we thinking,
going out on the busiest restaurant
night of the year, for a quiet,
romantic dinner? How was quiet
and romance supposed to take
place in the middle of crowded
chaos? Trick question, it can't.
The fix is not to participate
in the silliness. This is a problem
He wraps me
in comfort and
kindness every
day of the year.
Beat that, Saint
Valentine!
for you " on the day " people who believe that Valentine's
must be celebrated on February 14th or not at all. To have
a good experience, you have to show a little flexibility.
Your Valentine's might be on February 13th or the 15th
or the 20th or even March 1st. Roll with it. Do your thing.
Don't bow down to the golden calf of Hallmark. Make the
holiday what you want and when you want. Personalize
it for you, not to meet others' expectations.
My first husband celebrated only on the day. Great big
showstopping floral displays delivered to my office. They
looked like a cross between funeral flowers and an arrangment
in front of the minister's podium. They were just
big. Dinner on the night of the 14th. It was all very showy
and all very hollow. Being a true
introvert, my primary reaction to
those public dinners was stress:
The dinners weren't for me. The
goal was to show off, peacock
strutting, to complete strangers. I
felt like a prop. I did not feel-in
any shape or form-loved. Ick.
Make my therapy appointment
now. It got so bad I faked a Valentine's
Day illness on occasion.
Cough, cough. Sniff.
So how have I changed in my
approach to Valentine's Day? I got a brand new upgrade
husband who is far more sensible and kind. We celebrate
chocolate sales day instead. We celebrate when convenient.
We celebrate when the waiters aren't curled up in
a fetal position behind the bar to hide from barking-mad
lovers. And most importantly, we show each other we
love each other every smooching day, not when Hallmark
demands its due.
He notices my car needs to be inspected and just takes
it. He makes sure I have ice in the freezer for my beloved
iced tea. He lets me sleep if I've had a hard week at work.
He wraps me in comfort and kindness every day of the
year. Beat that, Saint Valentine!
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