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grand legacy
Seeking family connections when you live alone
Give a GRAND Gift
BY JERRY WITKOVSKY
A
t 89 years old, I found myself thinking with pride the
other day about how amazing the experience and intellectual power of my extended family is. What a wealth
of knowledge we are collectively.
From them I have learned about worlds far from mine.
There was a time when I might have learned of my family's
interests and dreams while we were sitting around the dinner
table. I've always advocated for a culture of teaching and learning from one another, with knowledge and ideas spreading in
multiple directions during our lively conversations that came
naturally as were together in our day-to-day lives.
But today, I live alone.
No longer part of an immediate family, for teaching and
learning to continue, we must seek it out across our extended
family. We must make a concerted effort to connect and
engage in a meaningful, purposeful way.
Learning and teaching has to be deliberate
My son Michael, who recently became a grandpa himself, has
always disagreed with my belief in the need for a conscientious
approach to promoting learning and teaching among members in our extended family. He believes it happens organically.
"We are constantly patrons in the library of living," he
recently wrote to me. "What we don't always have is the company of others in that process, the permission from authorities
and experts to learn, the encouragement to demonstrate those
assets we have."
I find his commentary interesting. He points out that
while we learn all the time, we may not "have the company of
others in that process," or someone to give "encouragement to
demonstrate those assets we have." Hmmm...those two missing
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