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"The bastard was arrested the next day. He pleaded
guilty. The problem is that he was given a light sentence
- no jail - and to this day, most of my family believes
I was lying."
TERESA BERRY FOUNDED the Sexual Assault Response and Awareness program while a student at
Radford University 30 years ago. She had developed
a sensitivity to rape victims that has remained strong
through these years of counseling, learning and teaching about sexual assault.
SARA is a non-profit program that works directly
with rape victims. Berry says that "If you're looking
for the criminal justice system to right the wrongs,
you'll be sorely disappointed. The universe will take
care of it."
Berry has discovered that rapists "have a sixth sense
... an agenda." Their crimes "are scripted."
Rape "is the most traumatic experience outside
death." She deals with 350 to 400 calls a year at her
Roanoke office, ranging from people seeking information to those needing direct help. By comparison,
the Carilion forensic team sees 250 victims of all ages
a year.
Berry says that about 75 percent of rapes in the
Roanoke Valley are family/acquaintance rapes: "A
stranger is a rarity, maybe 5 to 10 percent." Rape is
"often a crime of opportunity, one where the enviTHE
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ronment is manipulated. Sometimes the opportunity
presents itself."
Berry says that in recent years, there has been a
change in the approach to rape prevention. The Virginia Department of Health, she says, has shifted
some of its emphasis to working with young men
and educating them. "That's the next step," she says.
"We have to talk about changing societal norms. A lot
of this is ingrained and we have to step outside our
preconceived ideas."
The examination room for
rape victims at Carilion
Clinic is private and secure.
Child victims are given
a bag of items to help
comfort them.
RACHAEL IS A MIDDLE-AGED OWNER of a technology company in Roanoke. At the age of 20, she had
a run-in with a Roanoke County sheriff 's deputy that
was a large step beyond an uninvited pass. She says she
was at a psychiatric center "getting my first husband
evaluated for suicide threat. While waiting, I talked to
the county cop who had brought in a neglected child
and parent.
"The next day, I was driving to my in-laws' house and
that cop drove by me in his [personal] truck and waved
me over to side of the road. I pulled over because I wanted
to find out what happened to the child. He leaned into
my car, stuck one hand down my pants, the other under
my shirt, and his tongue down my throat. I was confused,
angry, scared and had no idea what to do.
"He was a cop; I didn't want to get in trouble. He
stopped sucking my tonsils long enough to tell me where
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Table of Contents for the Digital Edition of The Roanoker - March/April 2015
Saluting First Responders
Rape: Speaking of the Unspeakable
The Changing Face of Banking, and What it Means to Your Loan Hopes
Roanoke Charitable Giving: Your Guide
Lily & Lucky: Two Rescue Dogs Do Their Own Rescuing
Pets, Pets and More Pets
Weekend: Eastern West Virginia
Dialing Up a Masterful Master Suite
Dining Reviews: La Elinita and Nopales
Notes & Click
From The Editor
The Quiz
The Look
The Flavor
The Calendar
The Gist
The Dish: Dining Guide
Where Are They Now?
The Menu Dining Guide
The Roanoker - March/April 2015 - Intro
The Roanoker - March/April 2015 - Cover1
The Roanoker - March/April 2015 - Cover2
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The Roanoker - March/April 2015 - 6
The Roanoker - March/April 2015 - 7
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The Roanoker - March/April 2015 - Notes & Click
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The Roanoker - March/April 2015 - From The Editor
The Roanoker - March/April 2015 - The Quiz
The Roanoker - March/April 2015 - The Look
The Roanoker - March/April 2015 - The Flavor
The Roanoker - March/April 2015 - The Calendar
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The Roanoker - March/April 2015 - The Gist
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The Roanoker - March/April 2015 - Saluting First Responders
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The Roanoker - March/April 2015 - Rape: Speaking of the Unspeakable
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The Roanoker - March/April 2015 - The Changing Face of Banking, and What it Means to Your Loan Hopes
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The Roanoker - March/April 2015 - Roanoke Charitable Giving: Your Guide
The Roanoker - March/April 2015 - Lily & Lucky: Two Rescue Dogs Do Their Own Rescuing
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The Roanoker - March/April 2015 - Pets, Pets and More Pets
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The Roanoker - March/April 2015 - Weekend: Eastern West Virginia
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The Roanoker - March/April 2015 - Dialing Up a Masterful Master Suite
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The Roanoker - March/April 2015 - Dining Reviews: La Elinita and Nopales
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The Roanoker - March/April 2015 - The Dish: Dining Guide
The Roanoker - March/April 2015 - Where Are They Now?
The Roanoker - March/April 2015 - Cover3
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The Roanoker - March/April 2015 - The Menu Dining Guide
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