Condo Media - October 2021 - 48

The Region RHODE ISLAND
The Inner Tension
of Community
Association Living
[by Frank A. Lombardi, Esq., CCAL]
Aristotle said that human beings are
" social animals. " He might be right, but
I'm sure that if Aristotle had lived in a
condo, he would have had a somewhat
altered opinion. And, as a person entering
his seventh decade on this earth, I've
spent a great deal of time people watching
and can confidently state my belief
that even though we are supposedly
" social animals, " we all crave our individuality,
and as such, we really were not
truly meant to live together, or at least
not as close to one another as community
association living necessarily allows.
Further, as a community association law
practitioner receiving dozens of calls and
emails daily about unit owner disputes,
I can safely say that if a person owns a
condominium, they fight a daily inner
battle between their social self and their
individual self. This can lead naturally
to a lot of inner strife, not to mention
a multitude of covenant enforcement
hearings that time and again serve to
To be a good leader of unit owners within any residential
association, it takes a special talent to first recognize and
understand that inner tension that all fellow owners have
and then to work towards achieving a balance of the
two seemingly incongruent needs.
48 CONDOMEDIA October 2021
remind unit owners that when one lives
in a condominium, they must sacrifice a
bit of their individuality for the good of
the social (association) whole.
To be a good leader of unit owners
within any residential association, it
takes a special talent to first recognize
and understand that inner tension that
all fellow owners have and then to work
towards achieving a balance of the two
seemingly incongruent needs. Occasionally,
I am pleasantly surprised to meet
such a leader at a unit owner meeting.
In fact, I met one, let's call him
Richard, at a unit owner special meeting
last night. As Board President, he called
the meeting to order and, microphone
in hand, walked the aisles and looked
all the attendees in the eyes and asked
every single person there to introduce
themselves and to state what it was that
they liked about their condominium
association. The agenda item for the
special meeting was a painfully expensive
yet necessary capital improvement
for the road system replacement. So,
instead of diving right into the project
(and into their wallets), he chose to
open with a classic ice breaker technique.
We heard 51, " Hi, my name is
Steve, I live with my wife at unit such
and such, and I like living here because
it's a safe and welcoming community for
our children. " Or, " Hi, my name is Mary,
I live at such and such, and I very much
like how everyone smiles at me when I

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