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LEARN HOW THEY WANT TO
BE SUPPORTED
Everyone's support needs are different
Some may want to go at it alone; others will have a
strong need for connection, support, and normalcy.
Follow their lead and remain authentic to your
relationship. Most important, remember the diagnosis
has not changed who they are on the inside, so
avoid treating them differently.
Clear communication is vital
Since effective communication is a two-way street, it's
important to be as honest and transparent as possible.
This is new territory for everyone, and the other person
will not know what you need unless you communicate
clearly. Keep these tips in mind: it can be embarrassing
or humbling to ask for help, and it may be difficult or
stressful for them to know what to ask for in the
beginning. Offering specific items or actions of support
will help ease the burden, but remember to allow them
space to decline your offer without getting offended or
taking it personally. They may not be ready to receive
what you are offering on that day. As they get more
comfortable asking for and accepting help, it will
become easier to know how you can be present.
Be mindful and listen
Sometimes, simply listening and providing a safe space
for processing emotions is all they want. Needs often
come up naturally in the conversation. Be careful not to
be that person that forces beliefs or opinions on them.
Respect their choices and decisions, offer advice only
when asked, and find positive and meaningful ways to
make their day better.
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