Rural Missouri - February 2022 - 28
Please
Be My
Neighbor
Simple acts of kindness
make great neighbors
by Heather Berry | hberry@ruralmissouri.coop
A
fter the past couple of years, it would seem what
the world needs now is one massive hug. People
are still reeling from the COVID-19 pandemic and
loss on many levels. What one person battles daily
looks quite different for another. That's when something as
small as a smile or simple act of kindness can help open
doors of healing for hearts and souls.
David Burton works for the University of Missouri Extension
in Springfield as a county engagement and community
development specialist. A couple of years ago, he
came up with a community outreach guide and pitched the
idea to his boss. It was the seed for what is now known as
the Engaged Neighbor Program.
It was on a long drive back from Colorado listening to
an audiobook about relationships that David had an " aha! "
moment - he was a
horrible neighbor.
As his family slept,
David thought about
the fact they had lived
in their Republic neighborhood
for 16 years,
yet he couldn't name
most of those living
in the homes around
them.
" I have a friend who
says, 'Eat crow while
it's young and tender,' "
David says. " The fact we
hadn't connected with
the neighbors or even
introduced ourselves
was the crow. And
it wasn't young and
tender because some of
the neighbors had lived
there quite a while. "
Top: Chalk art decorates a driveway during a Neighboring art event. Above:
David Burton, University of Missouri Extension county engagement and community
development specialist, brainstorms with Ridgecrest Baptist Church Mission
Director Kelsey Kleier. The church is incorporating a " We Are Neighbors Initiative "
into their local missions outreach program.
28 RURAL MISSOURI | FEBRUARY 2022
Soon, it was personal conviction which drove David and
his wife, Stacey, to put together plates of cookies with a
handwritten note, photo of their family and all the ways
they could be contacted. " I literally went door to door and
said, 'Hey, I've not been a very good neighbor.' "
While he's now read dozens of books on neighboring and
communication, David will be the first to say it was the
audiobook " The Art of Neighboring " by Jay Pathak and Dave
Runyon which served as the catalyst for his own change.
" The art of neighboring involves our being able to both
give of our time and energy and, just as important, to receive
of others, " shares the book's authors.
An official outreach of MU's Extension Program since
2020, the Engaged Neighbor program is gaining traction in
other counties as other extension specialists are working to
incorporate good neighboring ideas locally.
As part of the outreach, businesses are stepping up and
joining in the grassroots
effort to be good neighbors.
This year, awards
were given to more
than 15 businesses and
neighbors who participated
in Missouri's
Good Neighboring Week
in September. Nearly
5,600 acts of neighboring
were submitted by
nearly 100 groups or
individuals. In Greene
County, David promoted
a " 1,000 Acts of Neighboring
Challenge " which
was well-received.
" We more than doubled
our goal for acts
of neighboring, " says
David, noting county
residents officially documented
2,281 acts of
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