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Questions for reflection (the audience's experiences)
I posed the following questions to the SEAHO audience in Richmond for reflection and I pose them
here:
1. Have you ever neglected your own mental health for something job-related?
2. Have you ever felt afraid or ashamed to tell your supervisor that you are struggling with
mental health?
3. Have you supervised someone who needed accommodations and what was that like?
4. How do you support students that are struggling with their mental health?
5. Are there obstacles in the workplace that make it difficult to focus on your mental
health?
Many people shared stories about sacrificing in some way at work that was detrimental to their
mental health. A large majority of those people also stated they were afraid or averse to sharing their
struggles with their supervisors/colleagues. Neurodivergent and Neurotypical colleagues alike felt
that apprehension. Wouldn't it be better for everyone if the workplace embraced those discussions,
and provided intentional support based on the actual needs of the employees, not assumptions
made without their input?
I interviewed therapist Emily Markey, P.A. from Mooresville, North Carolina and her input was
extremely helpful. She brought into focus the all-or-nothing thinking that many have when thinking
about the abilities of the Neurodivergent. Emily stated " A lot of people think because someone has
Dyslexia, they can't read or if they have ADHD they can't focus and will have difficulty completing
basic tasks. That's not the case; with proper support and resources, they can accomplish the same
things as Neurotypical colleagues. " We spoke about the stereotypes that follow neurological
conditions and the " medical model " that perpetuates them. The medical model focuses on the
" disability " aspects of Neurodivergent conditions (aka: what people can't do). The social model
focuses on what people can do and how they can be supported in their efforts. Someone with
ADHD may not be great with deadlines but could bring a lot of creative solutions to problems in
the workplace that nobody else can. Emily summed it up well by saying " there are so many amazing
gifts that Neurodivergent individuals can bring to the workplace. It's a shame that we don't get to
see them because people focus on the negative. "
3. INTERPERSONAL DISCOVERY
Common misconceptions
To help combat some of the stereotypes associated with Neurodivergence, it is important to
actively listen. Most of the time, things are not what they seem. I provided some examples in the
presentation via graphic 3 below:
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